Cyber Romance Leads To Cross-Cultural Marriage
CYBER ROMANCE LEADS TO CROSS-CULTURAL MARRIAGE
Practice English with your teacher
Warm-up
Talk about these questions with your teacher.
선생님과 이야기해 보세요.
- What do you think is the most important quality in a partner?
파트너에게 가장 중요한 자질은 무엇이라고 생각하시나요? - Do you believe in love at first sight?
첫눈에 반하는 사랑을 믿으시나요?
Vocabulary
Listen and repeat after your teacher.
선생님을 따라 읽어보세요.
Reading
Read the passage with your teacher.
선생님과 함께 지문을 읽어보세요.
Philadelphia,PA,USA--Until recently, Figen Gencosmanoglu,36, was living in Trabzon, a small town in Turkey. Dan Haigh, 42, was in Philadelphia. Both were in the same boat--divorced and lonely. They met on the internet and started e-mailing each other. Figen told Dan all her secrets. "He was so far away, he seemed unreal," she says. "It was like talking to an advice column, but I knew we had a lot in common." Dan was soon e-mailing Figen three times a day--morning, noon and night. Before long, he wrote, "I'm coming to Turkey." He hadn't even seen a picture of her!
Meanwhile, Figen got a photo of Dan in the mail. It took ages for her to open the envelope. She put it in her heart and repeated, "Oh God, please God." She was already madly in love with him and didn't want to be disappointed by the photo. She was not.
A month later, Dan made the long and expensive trip to Trabzon, his first trip outside the US. He was nervous about the meeting. On the plane, his mother's words echoed in his head. "What are you doing? Are you nuts?" In Turkey, Figen was on edge too. "Aren't there any American women for him?" her parents had said. But when Figen and Dan set eyes on each other, they knew it was the real thing.
Dan researched Turkish marriage customs and several months later went back to Turkey with his parents and formally asked for Figen's hand. "When you meet on the internet, you begin as friends. You can really listen to the other person. You have time to think about their words and to read between the lines," says Figen, now living happily with Dan near Philadelphia.
Comprehension Check
Answer the questions about what you read.
읽은 내용에 대한 질문에 답해 보세요.
- Why were Figen and Dan in the same boat?
- What did Figen realize soon after she and Dan met on the internet?
- Why did it take ages for her to look at Dan's photo?
- When Dan made the trip to Trabzon, how did he feel? Why?
- How did Figen feel just before he arrived?
- What happened when they set eyes on each other?
- Why did Dan go back to Turkey later with his parents?
- Why does Figen feel that dating on the internet is a good thing? Complete the story: ask for her hand take ages have a lot in common be disappointed before long be nerovus about make a trip set eyes on be in the same boat 56 Years of Correspondence Leads to a Happy Ending In 1942, Colleen Lee was 14 years old and living in Iowa. She had a pen-pal from England, Geoffrey Lake, who was also 14. Writing to each other was a school assignment. The teenagers did not _________________. Collen was an innocent girl who was happy on her father's farm. Geoffrey was growing up in the middle of a war. But the two teens found it wasy to write to each other. ______________________, they were writing almost everyday. However, when the war ended in 1945, they both got married and stopped writing. It __________________--almost 40 years--for Geoffrey to start writing again to Collee again. He was happily married bu the wanted to know what happened to her. When Collen got his letter, she was delighted and their correspondence blossomed again. Colleen was married, too, so there was no romance in their letters, only a strong friendship. In 1992, Colleen's husband died. Then in 1997, Geoffrey's wife died. Now they _______________________---widowed, lonely and almost 70 years old. Their letters became romantic, beginning with "My darling" and "My love". Still, the two had never met. After much persuasion from Geoffrey, Colleen agreed to ___________________ to New York to meet him. Of course, they ________________ the meeting because they didn't want to ______________________. But according to Geoffrey, when they first _______________ each other, they knew it was the real thing. "It was love at first sight. There was no tension or shyness. Geoffrey went down on his knees and _______________. The couple married in 1998 and they are now living happily in Iowa. "It seems like a fairy tale," says Colleen. wildly:in a wild and uncontrolled way nervous: uneasy,having a feeling of dread or apprehension Example He struck out madly in all directions. I was nervous about meeting his parents. Idioms and Expressions be in the same boat (as someone) - be in the same situation, with the same problems have a lot in common (with someone) - be similar in many ways (to someone) before long - in a short time; soon take ages - take a long time be disappointed by someone or something - feel that your hopes were not met by someone or something make a trip - travel someplace be nervous about something - feel afraid and a little excited about something be nuts - be crazy; insane be on the edge - be nervous set eyes on someone or something - see someone or something for the first time be the real thing - be genuine and authentic ask for someone's hand - ask for permission to mary someone read between the lines - guess at something that soemthing that has not been stated directly
- Have you met interesting people on the internet?
- Do you have any friends who are in the same boat as Figen and Dan were? Do you have any advice for them?
- How do you know when love is the real thing?
- Tell about a trip you made recenlty. Were you pleased or disappointed by the trip? Tell why.
- What are you often nervous about? Why?
Korean Trap! / 한국인 실수 교정
Common mistakes Korean speakers make.
한국인이 자주 하는 실수를 알아봅시다.
"marry"는 타동사이므로 "with"를 쓰지 않습니다. 결혼하다 = marry + 사람
Discussion
Share your thoughts with your teacher.
선생님과 의견을 나눠보세요.
- What was the most surprising thing you learned about cyber romance leads to cross-cultural marriage from this passage?
이 지문에서 cyber romance leads to cross-cultural marriage에 대해 가장 놀라웠던 점은 무엇인가요? - How does the topic of cyber romance leads to cross-cultural marriage affect your daily life?
cyber romance leads to cross-cultural marriage 주제가 당신의 일상에 어떻게 영향을 미치나요? - Do you agree with the main argument presented in the reading? Why or why not?
읽기 자료에 제시된 주요 주장에 동의하시나요? 왜 그런가요, 왜 아닌가요? - If you could share one idea from this lesson with a friend, what would it be?
이 수업에서 친구에게 공유하고 싶은 한 가지 아이디어는 무엇인가요?
Lesson Summary / 수업 요약
Today's Topic: CYBER ROMANCE LEADS TO CROSS-CULTURAL MARRIAGE
Level: High Intermediate (H.I)
Review this lesson before your next class! / 다음 수업 전에 복습하세요!