Lesson 5
For Men And Women
Lesson 5
FOR MEN AND WOMEN
Practice English with your teacher
3 min
Warm-up
Talk about these questions with your teacher.
선생님과 이야기해 보세요.
- Is the concept of 'love at first sight' a genuine phenomenon or a cultural myth?
- How do you think technology has altered the way people form romantic connections?
4 min
Vocabulary
Listen and repeat after your teacher.
선생님을 따라 읽어보세요.
revolution /ˌrɛvəˈluːʃən/
a dramatic change in conditions or methods; an overthrow of government | 혁명
The concept of revolution is relevant to today's discussion.
depression /dɪˈprɛʃən/
a mental condition marked by persistent sadness and loss of interest | 우울증
The concept of depression is relevant to today's discussion.
situation /ˌsɪtʃuˈeɪʃən/
a set of circumstances in which one finds oneself | 상황
The concept of situation is relevant to today's discussion.
maim /meɪm/
to wound or injure severely, causing permanent damage | 불구로 만들다
The concept of maim is relevant to today's discussion.
drifted /drɪftɪd/
moved slowly away from a fixed point or each other | 떠밀려 갔다, 멀어졌다
The concept of drifted is relevant to today's discussion.
opinion /əˈpɪnjən/
a personal view or judgment not based on proof | 의견, 견해
The concept of opinion is relevant to today's discussion.
obsolete /ˌɑːbsəˈliːt/
no longer in use or no longer useful | 구식의, 쓸모없게 된
The concept of obsolete is relevant to today's discussion.
5 min
Reading
Read the passage with your teacher.
선생님과 함께 지문을 읽어보세요.
- Tell your sweetheart you love her. She can never hear it too often.- If you like the way she looks, dresses, talks, smells, let her know it. But if you don’t like something about her, keep it to yourself.- Never try to make her jealous.- Treat her with the same respect and courtesy you show women you don’t know well.- In addition to remembering her on all the gift-giving occasions, such as birthdays, anniversaries, or Christmas, from time to time surprise her with a little gift for no reason at all.- If you’ve had an especially wonderful evening together, send her flowers or a single rose the next morning. If she’s a working woman, send it to her place of employment. She will appreciate it twice as much.- When you are at a party together, never leave her alone while you’re off talking with someone else.- Tell her she is absolutely the most wonderful person in the world, and she’ll believe that you are.- If you want to be loved, be loving. Be nice to her relatives and they’ll tell her how lucky she is to have you.* * * * * * * * * *- Tell him often that you love him. If you’re married, don’t ask him if he loves you, or he’s liable to say, “I married you, didn’t I?”- Never criticize him in public. If you do have a criticism, be sure it’s constructive and offered in the spirit of love and helpfulness, not in anger or as a put-down.- Don’t bad mouth his friends or worse yet, his relatives.- Never keep him waiting. If he has a tendency to be late, always have something in your purse to read. It makes the waiting more tolerable, and you will be les apt to chew him out when he finally shows up.- Don’t call him at work unless it’s absolutely necessary.- Every man needs a desk, a closet or a cupboard to call his own. Don’t try to tidy it up for him even though it’s a cluttered mess and an eyesore.- I he eats ? or drinks ? a little too much, don’t nag him about it. But do remind him in a loving you wish he’d take better care of himself because you’d like to have him around to grow old and gray with.- Never quiz him about where he’s been or with whom.- Don’t sulk. If something’s bugging you, talk it out and clear the air. If he asks what’s eating you, don’t say “Nothing” or “You should know.”- Never lie to him. If there is something you prefer not to tell him, keep quiet. But if you tell him something, be sure it’s the truth.- Keep yourself clean from head to toe.- Develop some interests other than just him. The more outside interests you have, the more interesting to him you’ll be.- Surprise him occasionally. A little love note left on his pillow, in his lunch pail or briefcase, will warm his heart.
5 min
Dialogue Practice
Practice the dialogue with your teacher.
선생님과 대화를 연습해 보세요.
- Why do you think receiving flowers at her workplace would make her happy?
- If she wants to criticize him, what should she do?
- If he over drinks, what shouldn’t she do?
3 min
Korean Trap! / 한국인 실수 교정
Common mistakes Korean speakers make.
한국인이 자주 하는 실수를 알아봅시다.
❌ I have lived here since three years.
✅ I have lived here for three years.
'since'는 시점(since 2020, since Monday)과, 'for'는 기간(for three years, for two hours)과 함께 씁니다.
5 min
Discussion
Share your thoughts with your teacher.
선생님과 의견을 나눠보세요.
- courtesy: polite behavior; an act or gesture showing politeness
- liable: likely
- constructive: serving a useful purpose or helping to improve (something)
- put-down: criticism or insult
- bad-mouth: criticize (somebody), often unfairly or spitefully
- tidy up: pit in order; make neat
- clutter: fill with things in a disorderly manner
- sulk: show that (somebody) is angry about being treated badly by looking unhappy and not talking to anyone
- bug: annoy, trouble, or pester (somebody)
- eating: botheringWhat does it mean?
- If you do have a criticism, be sure it’s constructive.
- chew him out
- Talk it out and clear the air.
3 min
Extra Practice
- How often do you tell your sweetheart “I love you”? Do you think it’s easy to say it often? If not, how can you make it a habit?
- Men are usually expected to remember birthdays and anniversaries on their own and give present sot women on these occasions, but women are not under the same obligation. Why? Do you think it’s fair?
- If your sweetheart is almost always late for an appointment, how should you cope with the situation? How about if you are the one who’s usually late ? what should you do?
- Should there be any difference between men and women in terms of smoking and drinking?
- How are men and women different? List as may differences as you can.
Lesson Summary / 수업 요약
Today's Topic: FOR MEN AND WOMEN
Level: High Advanced (H.A)
Review this lesson before your next class! / 다음 수업 전에 복습하세요!